Valerian Sequeira - Awesome Husbands Hub 

I cannot express enough gratitude for the incredible guidance and support I received from Mr. Val during one of the most challenging times in my life. Facing a separation in my marriage, I felt lost and unsure of how to mend the relationship with my wife. Mr. Val's online coaching, rooted in the science of relationships and the enneagram, provided me with invaluable insights and practical strategies.

Mr. Val took the time to understand both my and my wife's enneagram types, creating a detailed map that highlighted our unique dynamics and challenges. His personalized approach helped me comprehend the underlying issues and offered a clear path to reconciliation. Through his expert guidance, I learned how to effectively communicate, empathize, and handle difficult situations with grace and understanding.

Thanks to Mr. Val's coaching, I have seen significant improvements in my relationship with my wife. His wisdom, compassion, and practical advice have been instrumental in helping me rebuild trust and connection. I highly recommend Mr. Val to anyone seeking to improve their relationships and navigate challenging times. His expertise in relationship science and the enneagram is truly transformative.

Thank you, Mr. Val, for helping me on this journey and giving me the tools to get my wife back. Your support has made all the difference.

This course is amazing, and all credit goes to coach Val. It helps us become the better version of ourselves and by learning relationship science, it truly transforms your relationship. If you stay consistent in learning and implementation, then you will be able to bring back love. I would definitely recommend this course to everyone who is going through some struggle in their relationship & want things to improve.

How Awesome Husbands Hub- AHH transformed our marriage?

Our courtship period was filled with romance stage, but on the day of marriage, I had a strong intuition that our marriage would be very difficult.
Problems began with dominant in-laws. With each day I was deeply hurt, there was a big silence on conversation with my husband. He stone walled from the beginning & later ran away whenever I wanted to have a conversation.

After few months I started criticising, with time he went to defensive mode. We were 2 individuals living under the same roof, conflicts & ugly fight were very common. We never trusted, understood, connected, supported & mattered to each other. We were happy in our own worlds. There were very few days filled with love that never lasted long, because it was over powered by the previous & next hurt episodes. With time the only thing we did religiously was hurt each other in every possible way.

I had changed unconsciously from an happy, optimistic & vivacious person into an pessimistic person ranting about my husband & inlaws every single day. The only thing I derived happiness was by hurting my husband. I started looking forward to receive hurt to return it back (in 2 folds) & the loop continued.This went on for 6 long years, slowly I realised the person I hated the most & my biggest enemy was my husband.
Neither of us were happy in the marriage, we would want to run away from each other. This was not a way I wanted to lead my life, many a times I sat down my husband to make him realise how we could improvise our relationship, but nothing worked. With time I used to hate when the clock turned 5pm (he used to return from work), sundays and holidays.

6 yrs was long time, I was leading a miserable life, I gave a thought for almost 7-8 months & realised divorce was the only option to get rid of everything.
Then with the unmanageable challenges (emotional, mental and financial) I decided to leave the house & lived seperately for almost 1 yr.

During one of our conversations my husband agreed for the first time in 6 yrs that he was wrong. He didn't force me to move in with him but requested, I started noticing small changes in him.
I moved in with him again wanting to give him the last chance, but knew I would be disappointed yet another time. I never knew about AHH & things started changing. It had been 15 days we didn't fight, I thought we would end up fighting in a months time. But to my surprise we might have had small conflicts that ended in half an hour (unlike before which lasted for months & weeks) with talking over & sorting it out (which never happened in the past). But no fight/argument were emotionally draining like before. Thats when I knew it was the magic of AHH.
Being into AHH my husband totally changed he took initiative for conversation, he started becoming optimistic, acknowledging & for the first time in 6 yrs he used the words "sorry & thank you" genuinely, he started helping me in household chores & the list goes on & on. And with this even I started changing unknowingly. From WORST not to BETTER but he became my BEST half.

Within a month we started living happily. For the first time in 6 yrs I felt I am married & for good. My husband became my best friend & I could talk to him about anything & there was tremendous positivity in each of his words.
I just wanted him to be a good husband but he transformed into a BEST HUMAN & this was possible only because of Coach Val & AHH.

Now at present since 2 yrs we are connected at a deeper level, more than love I have immense respect for my husband. If he get hurt I get hurt, his pains are mine & vice versa. We trust each other blindly & seek each other's help for any suggestions.

He was no doubt into an HERO MINDSET, & I was into the VICTIM MINDSET, seeing him transform tremendously, I was curious about AHH. His transformation helped me become a better version of myself (Personally, Professionally & Socially) with the knowledge he passed on to me about relationship science.

Fortunately I had an opportunity to be a part of MEETING THE GODDESS WORKSHOP. Now with MTG, I see the dots connect & for sure I am in my best form at present. We are leading a calm, peaceful and happy life with all the learnings. Now I look forward for happiness & inturn return 2 folds to my husband.

There are no more conflicts & fight now, we at times have difference of opinion, which gets sorted over a discussion. At present we support, motivation & understanding each other.

After 6 yrs of power struggle, I had never imaged even in my dreams that our marriage would be such amazing. If not for AHH I don't know where we would have landed up.

Every time we think we feel that this came as a blessing from the universe through Coach Val.

Thanks Coach Val for helping us transforming our&many more marriages from a struggling cocoon into a beautiful & colourful butterfly.

Hellow Awesome Husband's n Wonderful Goddesses,

"All relationships go through help, but...but...but....only the real relationships gets through it"

A very meaningful quote that speaks by itself and we were real example...as we all go through the stages in relationship, ours started deteriorating from 2017 which was jst 2 years after our Arranged Marriage..minor differences n fights were like a part of routine untill end of 2021 which was horrible where lack of communication, coordination, trust, love, or even basic friendship had gone for toss but the main concern was having a toddler(our daughter) involved with us and seeing our disputes n silences

My husband was referred about this coach by close friend and he joined the club from 2021 n he was totally dedicated n committed to all the activities that are designed by Coach Val coz my husband wanted to save our relationship while I was totally unsure, the only reason why I would live with him was for sake of daughter as I didn't wan suffering for her

I was observing some changes in him, though it wasn't making alot of difference to me bt i felt when he can do why can't I try, i did try few options but they all lifted my emotions at some point n other i was put deeply down

After almost 1.5 year of religious practices I wasn't responding to him very positively untill one day when he gave me an ultimatum to call off the relation as he didn't have more patience to deal with me

I was disturbed, confused, sad, ineffective n inefficient to make any decision where Coach Val came us with Meeting The Goddesses Workshops for females of Awesome Husband's

My Learnings from Meeting The Goddesses Workshops are
- Relationship as Science
- Stages of Marriage
- Drama Triangle
- Victim mindset
- Perspectives
- Mirror Neurones
- Personality types
- My Beliefs, Thoughts, Behaviours, Actions, Habit Building
- I am Pain to live with
- Emotional Intelligence
- Conversation & Communication
- Connecting the dots & way forward
- 4 Master Behaviours

Now I see positive changes in myself too and have developed in Gratitude, Appreciation, Apologizing, Communicating positively, helping & supporting eachother, developed trust and friendship...and now it has developed like a habit n our daughter also is learning all this positive things and slowly gradually I am developing positive relationship not only at my home bt with friends, families, workplace atleast I am not too stressed n worried

Coach Val has really n genuinely empowered us and our relationship that was sinking in the stormy sea n he has been saviour to create better future for ourselves and for our daughter N we shall truely remain indebted for the rest of our lives

Let this mesge spread like fire and even one couple reads n accepts this, i am sure many house will be saved from anything negative n a child will never suffer n remain in harmony

We need more people like Coach Val n together we all can surely make a beautiful world to live in

Best wishes to everyone...have a beautiful n fruitful journey of this life n stay blessed n healthy n happy n in love

Thank you for reading n appreciating my thoughts

Best wishes & Warm Regards,
Dharini & Urmil Shah

This program helped me to become a better person/husband the way my wife wanted, I was able to bring my wife back and build the trust.

Coach Val is a great relationship mentor. After joining his course I understood the myth and story we carrying in head. The assumption and beliefs of us creating more problem in relationship. He helped me a lot to understand myself and spouse in psychological manner and his course is highly recommendable for who is going through separation or who done divorce and planning to re unite.

For me it’s really life changing course

Iam literly struck in my personal life before joining this course my coach VAL Is really opened my eyes . I am really thanks to universe to get in to Mr Val’s course

I am strongly recommend whoever is affected in Personal life please get in to the course

Hi, I got to know about awesome husbands hub at YouTube. I'm going through separation since 2 years. After joining the course, I came to know the exact way how to move forward, what needs to be done to get my spouse back and also to get rid of my insomnia and depression. I got to know ways and means how can I get things on track for which I had completely lost the hope. There is daily DLP session that's amazing to boost up and enerzise ourselves to start the day. And there is Anneagram that's wonderful through which we can have complete analysis of why its going wrong with us and how to proceed further. There is lovathon group of all awesome husbands who guide us and keep us on right track everytime when we are in confusion and not getting the way. So Awesome husbands hub is wonderful and coach val has taken up invaluable task on this earth to save families and children from immense sufferings and most importantly he is leading us to become a right person.

Very nice boot camp . Problem was it was during the peek time of my work , nevertheless I attended and find some of the things very innovative

What i like the most is i am not alone here the community Lovathon(Diamond)plays an important role in my transformation, understanding myself is the greatest key, able to communicate & understand my wife in a matured way, all other aspects of my professional & social life,we are so connected now life has become celebration & we are just getting started ❤️🥳
A Big Hug &Thanks To Our Coach Val🙏

Actually I joined only 2 seasions and did not go through the complete course yet as I am doing other courses too, but could not resist my self not joining this. But as far as I read and learned in those 2 classes, based on that I can say that every man should join this class. This will blow the mind because no one teaches us the morror, but here we see ourselves, our behaviour, our tone, where we thought we were right, but actually we were wrong. It teaches everything which should be learned by everyone to be in a relationship in true sense.

Very helpful Val and can get to understand many things. Not only personal life but also professional life. It can be a game changer for your life. Very helpful inspiring

i am seeing changes in me and as well as wife as the mirror neuron is working, its not fake, u have to do it first to see result, because these are so subtle that u have to realize it by going through it. Though little bit detailed, just going through utmost patience with the process suffice you a lot realizing ur true potential as husband. Spirit of love is everywhere, u need to know how to catch it as a gardener....invest ur time going through these course, journal, and implement slowly and steadily rather than hurry. After attending course i am able to care for my wife. I mean she is allowing me to care her. Yet to acheive more, but she is feeling happy, we had lost all communication, recently last ten days its a miracle in disguise, though more result yet to come....i have felt changes in me, way i talk, i am growing, and its making her to grow together. its like i am living life and leting her also live. Many challenges are yet to overcome,,,,,,but i have hope if i go through process one day universe would share the result....i dnt need to rush for it....by going right way i am sure i would come to an understanding to talk and communicate her more better for our joint pending tasks, for which we need joint responsibility. husband wife relationship a joint relationship and i am taking lead to guide her as a friend in future , and my all future dependenats in more holistic way...by understanding this sceince......u can also join us

I am impressed by the knowledge of Coach Val in context of Relationship Science and the way he beautifully explains it in such a way that every lay person understands it. I was on a Personal Session with him, and after a couple of questions, he narrated what was happening in my marriage and where I stand today. This information really helped me understand my situation. Acknowledgement is the beginning of change, and I firmly believe that this new knowledge will definitely help me become a better human being who can understand others and thereby help them.
I am sure I did the right thing by joining this course (diamond membership) and that feeling is getting stronger as I progress through the courses offered.
My journey for changing my life for the better has already begun!
If Relationship Science is magic, Coach Val is the perfect magician! Thank you Coach!

Coach has given me an excellent explanation of my Type, which will help me to understand myself better and work towards my self improvement to progress in life.

Thank you coach Val
Learned ennegram and my personality type which helps me to understand myself better and work according in every situation....
Got out from victim mindset and learnt how to be Hero.

LOVE started breathing again.
Blessings and Parents bring us to this life.
But major events like learning to talk.
Learning to Walk. Learning to write. Play a Vital role in our Growth. This is what Val gave to US.

Together for more than a Decade. But i know how to Love again because of Love Science taught by Coach Val.
He is an Awesome Human. Awesome Coach. Creator of Awesome Husbands. Thank god for the Day i watched his Webinar, that day was the best Day of this Decade for me. Soul Felt thanks Sir.

Once upon a time, I was in a dark space of self-doubt, lack of self belief, a life of chasing, baseless apologies, egoistic trumpeting, and blind belief in astrology. Those were the times when I had imagined myself to be the victim of a "failed" relationship. Then came, into my life, a whiff of fresh air, in the form of a guide, a mentor, a relationship "scientist"; this gentleman, Coach Val.

Coach Val also played the mirror to me. I was able to embrace, and undergo my transformation that has helped me, my partner, our relationship, and my relationships with others. Now, my partner and I are back in our renewed relationship, a brand new relationship, filled with more love and respect than ever.

Life is beautiful indeed. This is life.

This program is a eye opener for me. And I believe it's a must for all the people in relationship. If you are having struggle in your marriage. It's definitely for you. All the best

A proverb says dubta hua chinti ko tinka ka sahara bhi kaphi hota hai. The work that awesome Husband hub is doing is remarkable.my journey here in this community is around 6 month & I can say I needed a ray of light & I got complete day light.i was in a trauma with complete blindness of what to do after I fall into a situation of seperation but AHH helped me to get out of my present situation & showed me the right path to move ahead. I am in the journey & I have complete trust in the process. Thanks alot to our coach Mr. valeriansequeira without whom this couldn't have possible.