VioletDates Opiniones 161

TrustScore: 3.5 sobre 5

3,6

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Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

I`m not young and was worried I`d feel out of place. I don`t. There are men my age here, the women are mature and interesting, and nobody has made me feel old or out of touch. Very comfortable

Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

Support team is very good. Fast reply, knowledgeable and friendly. No issues at all, which is good for you. Unlike your support team, your sites and business model are questionable at best. Same pro... Ver más

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Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

Max provided clear information. I appreciated his assistance. What I dislike, is every feature of this site has a monetary cost.

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Valorada con 1 estrellas sobre 5

It’s a very expensive site/platform, working on availability of credits you have to buy only in order to chat with your mate and/or to send her emails , and …..if you want to open pics she sends you,... Ver más

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Violetdates is an online dating platform designed for those who value deep connection and heartfelt conversations. Whether you're looking to add warmth to your day or enjoy light romantic communication, Violetdates creates the space to let those moments bloom naturally. Our platform focuses on helping people connect at their own pace, without pressure or expectations. Here, you can share thoughts, express yourself freely, and enjoy the experience of talking to like-minded individuals. It’s about enjoying meaningful exchanges and seeing where the moment leads — one message at a time. Every conversation is a chance to discover someone who brings positivity into your routine. With Violetdates, romance unfolds gently, bringing joy, comfort, and a touch of excitement into your life. Join Violetdates to enjoy thoughtful communication in a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you're here to connect with someone new or simply to explore romantic conversations, this is your place to feel inspired and enjoy every moment as it comes. Let romance bloom.


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TrustScore: 3.5 sobre 5

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Valorada con 1 estrellas sobre 5

Meeting someone will cost you up to €1,200

Dating websites generally allow their clients to exchange contact details if they want to .

On VioletDates, you can never meet in reality, because if you try and send an email address or a phone number to the person that you think you are talking to, outside of the (pay-per-message) website, the site blocks the message.

The other tell-tale is that you can suggest meeting in a city, but the lady never agrees or replies to this approach.

I got chatting to a person whose profile said they were a 62-years old woman, but all the photos in her profile showed a woman about half that age.
I immediately got a sense of unreality.

You (the man) have to pay VioletDate approximately €1,500 to get a womans’s name, telephone number or email. But first, you have to get the woman to send her agreement, however, there is nowhere on the site to do this.

My honest advice, is avoid!

29 de noviembre de 2025
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Hi Jim,

Our system is designed to protect users’ privacy and safety while providing secure communication opportunities. Many profiles are verified according to our Terms of Services, and we encourage users to report any suspicious activity to support@violetdates.com so we can investigate thoroughly. We aim to create a respectful and safe environment, and your feedback is valuable as we continue improving.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

Seems clean, no scammy vibe

Most places like this turn weird after a week. This one’s been chill, no fake accounts, no spam. Just regular people using it. Everyone is so respectful and it makes it easy to open up

13 de noviembre de 2025
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Hi Brandon,

We’re happy to hear you’re enjoying a respectful environment. Creating a safe space is a top priority for us. Thanks for your kind words!

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

fair pricing compared to others

used a bunch of other sites before and most of them just eat your money. VioletDates is fair enough. you buy credits, use them how you want, I like that I’m not stuck with a useless subscription and I like chatting and pics.

11 de noviembre de 2025
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Hi Michael,

Thanks for your feedback. It’s great to hear you appreciate the flexibility of the credit system and the control it gives you over your experience.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

I’m 42

I’m 42, single dad, not really a dating app guy. got curious, joined, and ended up having a few good chats after work. it’s nice to talk to adults who actually listen lol

6 de noviembre de 2025
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Hi Oscar,

Thanks for sharing your experience. We’re happy you’ve found a comfortable space to have engaging conversations after work. Wishing you many more enjoyable chats ahead.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

Saw Violetdates reviews before joining

I didn’t see too many Violetdates reviews around, so figured I’ll just try it myself. Turned out better than I thought, site runs fine, chats don’t bug out and girls actually chat. So far I am enjoying it

27 de octubre de 2025
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Hi Elijah,

Thank you for sharing your experience. We’re glad to hear the site runs smoothly and that you’ve enjoyed conversations so far.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

Support was chill and fast

had an issue with logging in from another device, sent a quick message, got a reply in maybe two hours or so. dude on support was straight up, no copy lines, just helped me fix it. respect.

1 de noviembre de 2025
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Hi Isaac,

Thanks for sharing your experience. We’re happy to hear our support team was quick and straightforward in helping you resolve your login issue. Providing effective assistance is very important to us.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

Good.

Good.. I like it. So far everyone I’ve talked to seems real. People reply in their own way, some quick, some slow, no copypaste bs. That’s how you know it’s not full of fakes.

28 de octubre de 2025
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Hi Christopher,

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, we’re glad you’re enjoying your chats and finding the interactions natural and engaging.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

met some good people here

Didn’t join for anything serious, just wanted to talk a bit. Ended up chatting with a few cute girls I still chat with. nothing fake or weird, just normal conversations. kinda surprised me tbh

30 de octubre de 2025
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Hi Kevin,

Thanks for sharing your experience! We’re glad it’s been a positive and comfortable space for you to connect.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 1 estrellas sobre 5

Fraudulent

Fraudulent, just a scam preying on men looking for love. Plain and simple

30 de octubre de 2025
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Hi Timothy,

Our platform operates under clear Terms of Services and has strict safeguards to prevent fraud or misuse. A lot of profiles are verified, and we continuously work to ensure a safe communication environment for everyone. If you’ve encountered any suspicious behavior, please report it directly or reach out to our support team at support@violetdates.com so they can investigate further.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 1 estrellas sobre 5

Just not being able to actually connect…

Just not being able to actually connect in real lifetime situation without money being a issues it grips my ass that it hit me from the start hell Ive not even seen if she truly a female of my liken really

12 de octubre de 2025
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Hi William,

Please note that our platform operates on a credit-based system designed to give users control over which features they choose to use. This helps maintain a secure and well-managed environment for communication. If you’d like guidance on managing your credits or have concerns about a specific profile, feel free to contact our support team at support@violetdates.com.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 1 estrellas sobre 5

WARNING: IF YOU WANT TO BE TAKEN FOR MORE THAN YOU MIGHT HAVE, CONTINUE ON.

This is a warning to other men that have been taken for much money with credits and other expenses. It is a FRAUD site. I've had women answer my questions before, at the same time, I hit send. How can that be unless they are watching what I am typing before hand. I suspect that they are not women but are writing by men. I was able to catch one woman doing that and had no explanatin for it. I had a woman that was coming out to join me and the day I was supposed to pick her up at the airport, she dropped out of the site. This wasn't a short time. I had been talking to her for over 8 months. Needless to say, my savings ran out of tens of thousands of dollars just be writing. She told me she had a job when she arrived with me as a doctor at a local hospital. She told me she was taking exams and qualified as number one with her grades over 4 other people. Her salary was going to be very high and she thought she could get more, so asked for it. And they offered it to her. Half way through the testing her specialty changed. That just dosen't happen. That's when I was guessing she had been lying to me all along. A number of times, I asked how they knew that I was messaging and the reply I always got was they know that I am messaging them. No one could be specific. How often do you see they are online when its the middle of the night at their home. Then they pick up soon after. Believe me and all the others that gave poor reviews.

29 de agosto de 2025
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Hi there,

We take all reports of suspicious behavior seriously and have zero tolerance for fraud or deception on our platform. Please note that the profiles on this platform are verified according to our Terms and Conditions, and we have advanced moderation tools to maintain a safe environment. For any concerns regarding potentially fraudulent activity or unusual behavior, we strongly encourage you to contact our support team directly at support@violetdates.com so they can investigate and provide assistance. Your feedback is important and helps us continue improving the platform’s safety measures.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

Great communication

She showed interest. Was not stuck up. Very open and respectful. Honest. Having a heart ❤️ and all the sexiness she can offer.

20 de agosto de 2025
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Hi Luis,

Thanks for sharing your experience! It’s wonderful to hear you’ve had such a positive and respectful interaction. We want connections on the platform to feel enjoyable, so your feedback means a lot.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 3 estrellas sobre 5

bunch of beautiful women there

bunch of beautiful women there. Too bad all their profiles are professionally done because they were purchased from the stock photography house. Great place just to chat, because the women seem to be genuine. But don’t try to contact them in person. Every single CONTACT after spending 300–500 dollars is an impersonation. I should give this a lower score but I believed in it for a long time and consequently spent some serious cash that I didn’t have. Maybe I should give it a two but a three is more inappropriate because I believed. You will too for a while. Mark my words.

31 de julio de 2025
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Hi Edward,

The profiles of our users are verified according to our Terms and Conditions, and we are committed to maintaining a safe and respectful environment for communication. If you believe you’ve encountered suspicious activity, please don’t hesitate to report it directly to our support team at support@violetdates.com so we can review it further.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 1 estrellas sobre 5

My main concern on this site is…

My main concern on this site is Transparency is a fundamental principle that involves openness, honesty, and the clear disclosure of information.
This company blocks to stop (something) from reaching someone or something
The lady’s name, telephone number or e mail you will not get.
The women don’t pay for the service but the men do,
A faded fight , give up you are wasting your time and money.
If I was on an island with ten million men and one woman , i would have a better chance of getting a date with the one woman , than this site.

25 de julio de 2025
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Hi James,

Please note that the way interactions are handled on the platform is shaped by both technical and community standards aimed at maintaining a positive environment for everyone. If you ever feel something seems off or have more questions, feel free to reach out to us at support@violetdates.com. We're here to help.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

Very good not hard I've been robbed on…

Very good not hard I've been robbed on sites before it wat a fist for me an yes I'll come back soon waiting for bank card next week again be back soon as

6 de julio de 2025
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Hi there,

Thank you for the wonderful review! We're truly sorry to hear about your past experiences on other sites, but we’re glad you feel comfortable and safe with us. We’ll be here whenever you're ready to come back — no rush!

If you need anything in the meantime, feel free to reach out to our support team at support@violetdates.com.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 4 estrellas sobre 5

Lots of pretty Ladies.

Lots of pretty Ladies

13 de junio de 2025
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Hi Stephen,

Thanks for the review! Hope you keep having fun exploring and meeting new people.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 5 estrellas sobre 5

Beautiful women and hot talk

Beautiful women and hot talk

11 de junio de 2025
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Hi Jesus,

Sounds like you're enjoying the chats — glad to hear it's been a good time so far!

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 1 estrellas sobre 5

This is NOT a (legitimate) dating site where people get together!

This is NOT a dating site! They are a chat service where you pay an exorbitant price to talk to employees of the site who try to get you to waste credits so you need to keep buying more. At $500, credits are as ridiculous as the 5000 credits required to be spent only on one user, before being allowed to exchange contact information. Otherwise, their filtering system filters messages and regularly blocks normal correspondence as has been happening to me. Customer service was non-responsive and instead of a refund, just kept sending me emails intended to stall, since I was already chatting with customer service. And since nothing is guaranteed and women still choose if they just want to profit from or meet someone, it’s not worth it since no one ever got together on violetdates. 5000 credits would cost over $1,250 and take half a year, just to supposedly get a phone number, but it’s not guaranteed and it’s like you’re just starting to talk to that person again at that point.

So Violetdates is not being honest in saying they romance “to unfold at your own pace”. They DICTATE the pace (after you spend 5000 credits- $1,250). But like other reviews have noted, the “women” are NOT fellow paying users and are incentivized to get men to spend their credits. So I doubt getting contact information will matter at all because before they implemented their “content moderation system” aka- filter, I got the number to a dozen Ukrainian women. Of that, I got a dozen requests for money and didn’t meet anyone. So don’t bother, and don’t believe violetdates’ predatory and misleading claims. As a long time business analyst for a well known Fortune 500 bellwether that obviously will remain unnamed, I can however, put forth my professional assessment that Violetdates’ business model and operations seem solely focused on profit and extracting revenue from the “men”, who are the only paying “users”, with and by the efforts of the “women”. Their voracious enthusiasm for wanting to correspond with and engage romantically with an 83 year old man with no profile photo by 20 to 30 year olds who all give the exact same “age is just a number” explanation and rationale, makes it abundantly clear that “women” have no realistic expectations of ever meeting or actually being in a romantic relationship. It’s just not normal as the rule rather than the exception of all 20-30 yr olds. And the fact that they remain “logged on” and ready & available to reply around the clock, 24/7, 7d/wk, 52wk/yr, 12mnths/yr in and yr out can only mean they are either very motivated and incentivized (get paid well, OR there’s the other possibility that hundreds of stunningly beautiful 19,20,21, 22, 23 and up year olds are ALL solely obsessed with seducing an 83 yr old with no photo romantically, flirting sexually and sending explicit nude and anatomically revealing photos.) Possible? Sure it is, Remember Anna Nicole Smith married the 87 yr old billionaire? I’m closer to 38 than 83, but they don’t know that since i don’t have a profile pic and multi millionaire is good enough for now since I have lots of time still. But is it probable, practical, or even plausible that even one from each age from 19 and up, gets humid down south from a 83 yr old BF? 64 years older? I doubt it! But that obviously wasn’t considered because the flawed business model was based on maximal profit, and NOT “allowing romance to blossom naturally and comfortably” or whatever it was that they said that sounded so good, like a normal dating site. But the problem here is Violentaints. Violetdates is NOTHING like a normal dating site. And in their promotional pitch, they don’t mention anything about the true facts of the site. Now, why is that guys? Nothing about the arbitrary filtering software that blocks your messages and doesn’t tell you, even though it’s normal conversation? And nothing about requiring only men having to pay $200 to &500 for enough credits for carrying on a conversation with “women” who constantly try to make you open pictures, videos , and emails (for 50 credits each $12.50 , in addition to each text costing $2.50)? And most of all, why nothing about the 5,000 credit requirement, YES FIVE THOUSAND! Spent with ONE/EACH “woman” before you’re allowed to exchange contact information, but that guarantees NOTHING since the person or “woman” was texting for profit all along as was admitted to me by no less than four “women” who called VD their “job” (remember the 19 year olds interested in the 83 year old and how “women” are either “on duty” around the clock (perhaps because they’re AI chat bots) which would explain their long hours “on duty logged on” (just check how often their green light indicator is on. Hint: it rarely turns off. And if so, ALWAYS turns on if you send a text. Don’t those “women” sleep?

30 de abril de 2025
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Hi Lorin,

Thank you for taking the time to share your experience with such detail. We understand that you’ve raised a number of important concerns, and we want to assure you that your feedback is being taken seriously.

We’ve already directed your case to the appropriate internal teams for further review, and we’ll keep you informed as we assess the issues you mentioned. Our goal is to maintain a respectful and transparent environment, and your input plays a valuable role in helping us do that.

If you’d like to share any additional details or speak further with our support team, please don’t hesitate to contact us directly at support@violetdates.com—we’re here to help.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 1 estrellas sobre 5

Look how your money vanish...

The top female user "just forgot" to whom she was speaking and what we discussed 10 hours ago; it seems that the second shift arrived, and the new website employee was not aware... They have a pattern: system icebreaker (90% sexual); then, audio/video file (in the chat window); afterward, a letter with a pack of pictures. All in one: 2 credits/message in chat + 10 credits + 50 credits (audio/video) + 90 credits pictures attached to the 1st letter + 30 credits subsequent letters + 90 credits other pictures pack to each letter... and counting! This is a nice business, my friends!
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Follow up: the company which runs VioletDates asked for more details, to verify that I’ve had a genuine experience with their business. Foremost, this means: my e-mail address, my full name and phone number! Now... come on! Why do they need my full personal information? This also breaks the rules of protection of personal data! They threaten me that if not, the company may not recognize my review as genuine - as if I care! I only wanted to advise other men to be cautious with such misleading dating platforms. I have nothing else to prove, nor do I owe them anything, so take care!

27 de abril de 2025
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Hi Ro,

Thanks for sharing your detailed feedback with us. We’re sorry to hear that your experience didn’t meet your expectations. Communication on the platform is designed to offer a variety of features, each with its own credit cost, so users can choose what works best for them. Profile authenticity is very important to us, and we encourage users to report any behavior that seems suspicious or inconsistent.

We want to emphasize that our request for additional details was made with the sole intention of contacting you directly and better understanding your experience. We take feedback like yours very seriously and would like to review your case more thoroughly to better understand what happened and take any necessary actions. Please contact us directly at support@violetdates.com so our team can investigate your situation in detail and assist you further. Your experience is important to us, and we’re committed to providing a safe and genuine environment for all users.

Best,
Claire from VioletDates

Valorada con 1 estrellas sobre 5

Guys save your money the ladies are all…

Guys save your money the ladies are all fake , they tell you what you want to hear . They will only talk on that site and use fake pics

1 de abril de 2025
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Hi Brett,

Thank you for sharing your feedback. We’re sorry to hear that your experience felt disappointing. The authenticity of communication is something we take seriously — all profiles are reviewed in line with our Terms of Use, and we have systems in place to help identify and prevent misuse.

If you’ve come across behavior that felt suspicious or misleading, we encourage you to report it directly through the platform or contact our support team at support@violetdates.com so we can investigate further. Your input helps us maintain the safety and integrity of the community.

Best,
Claire from VioletDates

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