Don’t hesitate!
We decided to look for a doula for our second baby because we wished we had had one at our first birth.
For various reasons I was induced the first time, which lead to a cascade of medical interventions with no real choice or alternative offered. At certain points I really wanted some reassurance and explanation but the midwife was busy and only briefly checking in. I was well informed and had done a lot to prepare for the birth, including Hypnobirthing and educating myself on induction. But in the moment my husband and I didn’t have the confidence or actual experience to know what to do or ask.
We felt this birth could have gone very differently if we had had someone consistently with us to support us physically and emotionally before and during the birth, who had the experience to guide, reassure and advocate for us. So we decided to look for a doula for our second baby. I would recommend having a doula to every pregnant woman for this reason! Don’t hesitate.
We were so happy to find Alex! First we loved her warm approach, making us feel welcome and at ease from our first contact. Just booking her took away so much anxiety and uncertainty.
She helped us to prepare with meetings in person, as well as responding quickly to our messages and questions with really supportive helpful advice. She went the extra mile, finding resources to support our decisions, and offering to join appointments. Alex was so reassuring and down to earth. She provided just the right balance, empowering us with informed choice around natural birth while also supporting our decisions, being mindful of our hopes and fears.
As we approached our due date, I was keen to avoid induction and also hoping my baby was in a good position for birth. Alex used biomechanics to help the baby’s position, as well as essential oils and massage to promote labour. I went into labour two days later!
Alex came to our house as soon as we asked her to. When progress seemed to stall she helped me trust in my body and used biomechanics to help get things going again. We chose to have our baby in hospital and Alex was by our side the whole time, providing reassurance as well as physical and emotional comfort. She anticipated so many details and had support for all of them. Something as simple as a cool flannel was so needed! The birth of our baby was really positive and uncomplicated which I am so grateful for.
After the birth I had a complication with a retained placenta and I was taken to theatre. It was such a relief to know that my husband and baby were not alone. My husband said he was so grateful to have the quiet reassurance, companionship and support while waiting for me.
There were so many reasons we chose to have a doula. And it turned out there were even more reasons we hadn’t thought of for which we were so pleased we had one, and that our doula was Alex.
5 de abril de 2024
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